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Love Hard or Not at All

A little about me...
This is an update for those that have graced my page with your presence in the past and an introduction for those just tuning in... As of October 2009 I am a CANCER SURVIVOR X2... By the grace of God I am still here and loving every moment of it... The new look is short and to the point.... I have worn tressels down my back for over 15 years and it took for me to loose my hair to truly appreciate ones own inner beauty. Don't get me wrong there's no self hate here just a reality check in.. I have always been a strong woman however when faced with ones own immortality you realize that which is truly important... Therefore I am not the typical 36 year old woman... I require a man of depth, strong character and the ability to realize I have been through my share... So come correct or don't come at all... My new Motto is GO HARD OR GO HOME.... Life truly is a gift not a garauntee so live like it EVERYDAY... Gentlemen if you are here please know I have been through enough negativity in this life... So if you bring nothing positive please don't bother... WORDS TO LIVE BY.... "THE WILL OF GOD WILL NEVER TAKE YOU WHERE THE GRACE OF GOD CAN'T PROTECT YOU".

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Appearance

EthnicityBlack
BuildAthletic / toned
Height160 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlonde
Best featureLips
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual incomeup to $25,000

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries
Favorite TV showsCriminal Minds, NCIS, Cold Case
Favorite movies typesScience fiction
Favorite moviesThe Color Purple, Antoine Fisher, Mr. Brooks
Music typesJazz
Favorite artistsWhitney Houston, Jaheim, Lyfe Jennings
Reading selectionFiction
Idea of funDinner in or out, bowling, concerts, plays, learning to shoot pool, anything to do with the beach.. BBQ's and picnics...
HobbiesSports

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asSomeone they want to be
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorClever
My great timeStaying at home
Always wanted to tryJet Skiing

Views

Political viewsDemocrat
ReligionChristian
Attend religious servicesEvery day
Goal in lifeTo be a better woman tomorrow than the woman I was yesterday.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence
Look for in a partnerI'm looking for a man that knows who he is in life already. One that can give me what I need and appreciate all that I am willing to do to ensure our happiness. Please know that relationships are not purely about what you need. They are about what you both need and how you are willing to balance the two. Selflessness instead of selfishness. Love, patience and honesty are the fundamentals of a strong foundation. "What are you standing on?"
On the first dateSimple... Candelight Picnic..