I AM NOT SEEKING A CASUAL RELATIONSHIP!!!! OR FRIENDSHIP !!! We all have had encounters with the wrong "SOMEONE" and for some reason, people tend to bring those issues into new relationships, which I feel is very wrong!! especially when it is unsettled. If you've been hurt and should still find yourself lost and uncertain about what you want in life "Keep on moving " and KEEP YOUR DRAMA. If we both can't bring in something positive at this stage of our lives, the relationship would be wasteful!!! Life is not easy, but at the same time shouldn't be about dishonesty, drama and confusion. I am an educated, employed, drama free, serious minded single 43 year old female. I'm not perfect and I don't expect you to be either just "REAL". €œNOT INVOLVED" this also means separated (smile)!! Serious minded male 38 thru 50. Someone who is also me8ntally stable, drama free, compassionate, communicates well and serious about life and enjoying it to the fullest. It€™s sad to say but it€™s obvious that games are for more than just kids these days. Please be sincere about not just yourself, but what you're really seeking in a relationship/life. If you're seeking a LADY whose open minded, a good listener, also has a "BIG HEART" I'm here. If you're seeking someone other than a "woman" then you're wasting your time. I am not game playing material. I am seeking a serious friendship with a possible commitment, and I would assume that you would be seeking the same. I only respond to messages with photos. Race is unimportant however "ATTITUDE" and "PERSONALITY" is. Do these types of men even exist????? Thanks for reading and respecting my profile.